Category: Ghana

Hope

Hope

When we lose hope we become easy prey for oppressors: both physical and spiritual.

My prayer for us all in this season is that God grants us the grace and inner strength to continuously be hopeful no matter what.

That we create communities where when we feel hopeless, we will be lifted by the hope we see in others. Hope has been the Single factor that has pulled many out of unthinkable situations to places of complete liberation and rest.

Let’s acknowledge the pain, hurt, confusion, and the feelings of helplessness/hopelessness; release those and be intentional at guarding our hope.

Hope creates the foundation we need to build what we want to see. Hope enables us to see. Hope enables us to dream. Hope enables us to identify the good. Hope enables us to see stinking situations as manure that can be used to fertilize and realize a beautiful dream.

Hope keeps the atmosphere open and ready for the manifestation of what might seem impossible. Hope enables us to keep taking care of ourselves and putting one foot forward after another because in our minds eye we can see a better tomorrow so we stay preparing for it so that once what our mind sees manifests, we can be in a good place to step fully into it to play our part with excellence.

Hopefull people never lose. Refuse to lose by being quietly or loudly hopeful. Guard against surrendering to hopelessness… It spirals quickly into something else. Even though you can’t see it or feel it hope is been an age old powerful force responsible for creating powerful positive shifts in people, places and situations that were otherwise hopeless.

Never underestimate the power of hope. After you have done all… stand in quiet/loud hope.

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Why Is The Responsible Parent The One We Choose To Shame?

 

Our society’s attempt to shame single mums especially divorced and never married mums is laughable to say the least!

People get shocked when you present yourself as a proud and happy single mum. Why should I bow my head in shame when God in His infinite wisdom chose to entrust a whole human being in my care?

Why should I be ashamed for finding the courage to birth my child in my unmarried state, in a so judgemental society!? Why should I be ashamed for choosing Life for my child/children?

Why should I be the one who should be ashamed for walking out of an abusive marriage?

Why should I be the one who should be ashamed for being divorced by a man who felt I wasn’t good enough for him despite me putting my all into it?

Why should I be the one who should be ashamed even though I bear 70 to 100% of providing and raising these gifts of children to be fruitful and decent human beings?

Why should I be the one who should bow my head in shame when most often than not, I’m the responble parent?

Why are you so shocked I am not ashamed to wear the Crown of being a single mom/parent with great pride and joy?

Do you want me to be ashamed of my child/children?

Do you know what I have survived? Do you know that the very thought that I’m alive, sane and thriving sends joy like a river coursing through my whole being?

Do you know that I’m a pillar in society?

Do you know that I have raised and continue to raise amazing men and women who are pillars of societies around the world?

Do you know that I have singlehandedly raised sons who are amazing husbands and fathers even though they did not have fathers themselves?

How dare you stigmatise me to perpetuate the stereotype views about Single moms/parents?

Do you have a clue, the sleepless nights I had to endure to raise these heroes and heroines?

Do you have a clue the village that worked tirelessly to ensure I got my confidence and strength back after I fell flat on my face many times along the way?

Does it make sense to shame the responsible ones who stay and raise the children and hail the irresponsible fathers who abandon ship…. well because they can and we have empowered them by our coddling silence to can?

Being surprised at my confidence and pride of being a single mum, is asking me to be ashamed of my child/children. It is asking me to diminish the sacrifice I put in to raise them. It is asking me to devalue the inputs of my village and I cannot do that.

I’m thankful for my journey. I’m thankful for joy, peace, strength and wisdom. I’m thankful for my village who lift us up daily. I’m thankful to the Almighty God for His peace and many blessings. I’m thankful because abundance is coming my/our way in many forms.

Maybe just maybe you are the one who needs to interrogate your conscience and bow your head in shame?